A day inside the app
You each answer alone. Nothing shows until you are both in.
Today’s question
What small thing made you smile this week?
Seeing the plant on the windowsill finally flower.
You laughing at your own joke before the punchline.
The questions do the talking
A few of the 723, straight from the app’s own packs.
- Sweet
What’s a tiny thing I do that you secretly love?
- Play
If we entered a two-person talent show tonight, what’s our act?
- Everyday Ours
What’s a five-minute thing we could do together every single day?
- Sweet
When do I look happiest to you?
- Real Talk
What’s something you’re quietly proud of right now?
- Play
What would our friendship be called if it were a sitcom?
How it works
The good conversations rarely start themselves. This is a nudge, not a quiz.
1
Pick your lane
Choose romantic or friendship when you set up. The prompts, notes, and ideas are worded for the kind of closeness you actually want.
2
Answer apart
Each of you writes your own answer in your own time. No peeking, no rushing, and no pressure to be profound.
3
Reveal together
Once both answers are in, you see them side by side. A small moment that’s just yours, with no score for the relationship at the end.
More ways to connect
Everything you keep stays in one warm, unhurried place.
A lane that fits you
Romantic or friendship, worded for the closeness you want.
No peeking first
Same Page holds both answers until you are both ready.
Ready in seconds
723 questions across 28 categories, plus your own.
Little games
Playful This or That for slow evenings.
Plans you make
150 date ideas and things to do, sent to your calendar.
Your shared story
Notes, dates, and memories, kept in one place.
One phone, or two
Hand it over across the sofa, or keep your own phone. Both work.
Pass the phone. Our Little Thing works on a single phone. You answer, you hand it over, you reveal together. Nothing has to leave the device for that.
Or pair up. Partner pairing is optional and off unless you choose it. If you pair with someone, each of you keeps your own phone, and the shared records that travel between you are encrypted on your device first. The pairing service is designed not to receive your plain answers.
Photos you attach to memories stay on your phone. They are not part of the encrypted partner record flow.
Private by design
Your answers stay on your device. Our Little Thing contains no advertising SDKs and no remote behavioural analytics. Used on one phone, nothing about your answers, notes, or memories is sent anywhere for the app to work.
If you choose partner pairing, the service handles account credentials and the metadata it needs to connect the two of you: pair membership, key fingerprints, entitlement ownership, and your encrypted shared records. Encryption reduces exposure, but no security measure is perfect. Read the full privacy policy for exactly what is stored and when.
Sharing safely
Share your invite code only with the person you mean to share it with, and know that disconnecting a pair cannot undo what someone already saw.
Read the full sharing-safely note
If you pair, you decide who gets your invite code. Share it only with the person you mean to share it with. A paired partner may see content you choose to share through the paired experience.
Disconnecting cannot undo what someone already saw. Revoking or disconnecting a pair can stop future access. It cannot retract information the other person already saw, remembered, photographed, or separately saved.
Do not use Our Little Thing to threaten, harass, monitor, coerce, or endanger another person.
Pairing is optional. If using a shared feature could place you at risk, use the local-only features on one phone, or stop using the paired service.
If you are in danger or need urgent help, contact your local emergency services. This app and its support inbox are not an emergency service. The full wording is in section 4 of the terms.
Free, with a Premium subscription
Start free on one phone. Open the rest when you want it.
Free
$0
- Three question categories, with ongoing questions
- Eight starter date ideas or things to do
- Notes, meaningful dates, and memories
- Local use on one phone
- Your shared story
Premium
$6.99 a month · or $39.99 a year · renews until you cancel
- Every question pack, all 28 categories
- All 150 date ideas or things to do
- Premium themes
A gentle tool, not therapy.
Read the full wellness note
Our Little Thing is a general wellness and entertainment tool. It is not a medical device and does not provide medical, psychological, diagnostic, or therapeutic services. It is not relationship therapy or counselling, and nothing in the app is a substitute for professional advice. Seek qualified help when appropriate.
Questions people ask us
Do we both need the app?
No. Our Little Thing works on one phone: answer, hand it over, reveal together. Pairing two phones is optional and only happens if you choose it.
Is Premium a subscription?
Yes. Premium is a monthly or yearly subscription that renews automatically until you cancel it through the App Store or Google Play. Deleting the app does not cancel it.
What’s the difference between the romantic and friendship lanes?
You choose one when you set up. It changes the wording throughout. The same 150 ideas read as date ideas for romance and things to do for friendship, and the prompts and notes are tailored to match.
Can my partner see everything?
A paired partner may see content you choose to share through the paired experience. Disconnecting or revoking a pair can stop future access, but it cannot retract anything they already saw or saved. See sharing safely.
Does it score our relationship?
No. You can look back through your shared story, but the app does not rate, rank, or grade the relationship.
Can I get my data out?
Yes. You can export a backup file at any time. It is an ordinary JSON file that stays on your device unless you move it somewhere yourself, and the app does not encrypt it, so store it somewhere you trust. Note that the backup does not make your memory photo files portable; those stay on the phone.
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